Ikamva Labantu
So far, Ryan and I have shared a lot about what we do when we are not at our ‘placements’ (Ryan likes to refer to his SAEP gig as a placement- he jokes about secretly dreaming of being a social worker). Although it might seem like all we do here is tour, both Ryan and I spend most of our work week doing some pretty interesting stuff.
Like I mentioned in my first entry, I am doing a placement at a community development agency. Ikamva Labantu started as an anti-apartheid movement and over the years has come to offer many services, including programs for preschoolers, foster children and parents, seniors, youth and people with disabilities.
I spend all my time in the foster services sector. Thus far, Ange and I have researched, planned and implemented two out of three behaviour management sessions for foster mothers. We use research and our own experience with difficult kids to present principles and strategies to deal with challenging behaviours in foster homes. We plan to leave behind a manual that will (hopefully) be used as a reference for similar training in the future.
Given our age and (relatively) very minimal experience dealing with children and no experience as sole caregivers for any kids, we integrate the women’s years of experience and knowledge with skills and techniques we have gathered through research and training we have taken over the years. These women dedicate their lives to caring for children who otherwise might not have homes. They care for up to 25 children in their homes with few resources. It is inspirational and a privilege to spent time with them.
Another major part of our work is the planning and facilitating of a weekly psycho-educational/support group for women who care for others in their community (this includes foster mothers, women who work at preschools and women who care for elderly people). This has been a challenge that has (again, hopefully) strengthened my social work skills and increased my awareness of cultural and language sensitivities. This group has become my favorite part of the week. Once again, I am amazed by the spirit, strength and dedication of the women we meet with.
Other parts of my placement include some ‘officy’ stuff that can be both a break and little boring (at times). We also attend meetings (including the AGM) and other random events. Two weeks ago, we had the privilege of attending a seniors’ celebration in Crossroads. Although most of the speeches were in Xhosa, I thoroughly enjoyed the regular breaks that were taken to sing and dance, as well as the amazing homemade meal that was served at the end of our day. The roles of seniors in South African communities have changed a lot over the last number of years. The high rates of HIV/AIDS have made it so that many seniors must care for children on a part and/or full-time basis and continue to financially support their children and grandchildren; the seniors’ day was a much deserved celebration for a group people who take on a lot of responsibility in their families and communities.